Do I believe in soul mates and love at first site, absolutely.  The problem is identifying any of one of our pairs.  Lifetimes can be missed, but for those whom randomization has seemed fit to pair that born from is special.  They are the staples which hold our fabric from sliding off the wall.  Without them we fail to exist.  If we were truly clever, our unions would always birth these miracles.  We could become whole.