I am me.  And obviously, you are you.  You are not me.  So I understand that you are different from me.  Since I am not alone, and believe there are approximately 7 billion other humans whom share this earth, being different should never surprise me for being different is whom we all are.  We are all equally different.  It is not something for me to hate.  It is not something for me to fear.  It is not something for me to judge.  It is something for me to embrace, because that uniqueness are our mothers, fathers, daughters, and sons; our family, whom we love and do everything in our power to care for.